tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post6673548394663958157..comments2023-10-24T08:16:00.888-06:00Comments on A Girl Named Michael: Why Am I so Confused?Michaelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08036770895855751152noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-43439892024785402082012-07-10T14:00:42.922-06:002012-07-10T14:00:42.922-06:00Grandma is a very wise woman. I think The BF is ju...Grandma is a very wise woman. I think The BF is just freaked out that he is in his 40s. I wouldn't hold your breath that I will be married. Other than the whole getting wedding gifts thing its not my style.MJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15664673587238885512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-11236256509662076872012-07-10T13:20:48.440-06:002012-07-10T13:20:48.440-06:00Grandma(yours ,my mother) once told me the only ti...Grandma(yours ,my mother) once told me the only time you can aford a baby is when one is on the way.I have found this to be true , since thBF is a prity good dad Im sure he would stick around , my relious belifes tell me that you should be married befor you have a child . I also think lots of men have this delema , Uncle Michael was happy with one child he is just as pleased with all the rest that we were blessed to raise .mamitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07995857301312048680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-1222294049014005322012-07-10T10:36:32.908-06:002012-07-10T10:36:32.908-06:00Thanks that is good advice.Thanks that is good advice.Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08036770895855751152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-69963312074941317662012-07-09T21:01:46.799-06:002012-07-09T21:01:46.799-06:00Wow, that's a tough one.
I get what he's s...Wow, that's a tough one.<br />I get what he's saying about being an older father. I know when I'm around younger kids, they wear me out. It's not like in your 20's and 30's but in the same breath, people his age and older do it all the time.<br />I was never one to plan my kids. Sometimes I took precautions, sometimes I didn't. But I always felt my kids were meant to be. <br />I'll tell you loudly and strongly I don't want anymore children at 43 but I also have times when I wish I could have just one more. <br />It's not always an easy decision to make and what you're feeling is normal and so are BF's feelings. <br />I think the bottom line is this, if it happens, it happens.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-70275295194694460452012-07-09T15:41:36.533-06:002012-07-09T15:41:36.533-06:00Well I wish you both lots of luck in "trying&...Well I wish you both lots of luck in "trying" and look forward to the news that says "I'm pregnant!" :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-32775767869643148872012-07-09T15:23:59.720-06:002012-07-09T15:23:59.720-06:00I period that was 6 days late is what made me real...I period that was 6 days late is what made me realize that I might want a baby. Okay I am 97% sure this is what. I need to get The BF on the same page so that we can move from not preventing to trying.MJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15664673587238885512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-50696191257003883362012-07-09T15:21:07.150-06:002012-07-09T15:21:07.150-06:00Yes he is my boyfriend and he would stick around.....Yes he is my boyfriend and he would stick around...I think. LOL. Okay i know he would he may be as flawed as I am but he is a good father to his 2 children and fought hard to preserve his parental rights when his marriage went south. <br /><br />I would like us both to be on the same page but he knows I am no longer preventing pregnancy and leaving it up to him.MJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15664673587238885512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-55441458887566116492012-07-09T14:02:40.673-06:002012-07-09T14:02:40.673-06:00There is this state of flux when it comes to havin...There is this state of flux when it comes to having babies called "not preventing." This is different than trying because of the plausable deniability. Basically not preventing is the state where you aren't sure you want a baby, but would be ok if you had one, though not fully admitting you will be ok. Most of the time not preventing moves into trying after an event that makes you realize you DO in fact want a baby. In my case it was a late period, that eventually came. In those 4 days I was late, I was thinking I didn't want to be pregnant again. When my period started, I sat on the floor and cried for 2 hours. Then I knew I wanted a baby.Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14127474116860774939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8328286273309219597.post-3389979857299330542012-07-09T13:55:59.837-06:002012-07-09T13:55:59.837-06:00I'm fairly new to your blog so I don't kno...I'm fairly new to your blog so I don't know the extent of you and your BF's relationship so I have to ask. Is this a boyfriend or a husband you care calling BF? You may get many opinions, mine is this and has been my rule since I become "pregnant" eligible. If two parties agree on having a child and wanting the child, then go for it. If one party is saying is back and forth about it, I say protect yourself. If by chance you did become pregnant and he is a bf as in boyfriend, would he still stick around? Just my two cents, again, as I don't know the extent of your relationship. When in doubt, don't do it. <br /><br />I hope things work out for the best for both of you. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com